How Thoughts Create Feelings - And Feelings Create Actions


Everything feels hard.


Getting everyone out the door.


Never making it to work on time.


Racing through meeting after meeting only to rush out the door and try to get a kiddo where they need to be.


This ^^ was my client Lynn recounting her week.


She tries so effing hard & can’t get anywhere.


No time to even think…


OR is it what she’s thinking about that’s taking her time??


Our brains bombard us with 60,000 thoughts per day.


How many of those do you think are supportive & encouraging???!!!


As opposed to the ones that sound like…


Shit I’m going to be late for the appointment - should’ve left 10 minutes ago!!!


Damn we have to turn around because I forgot to remind Liam to bring his soccer cleats - AGAIN!! 🙄


WTF is this meeting about? Are we downsizing? I’ve been distracted lately, have they noticed?? Crap I’d better get my act together!


Why did Steve leave that laundry? Does he expect me to do it? Is that how this is now, he just leaves shit & I’m just supposed to take care of it?!


Is that really what I look like in these pants?!


What do these kinds of thoughts get her???


Worry


Fear


Irritation


Running


Doing


Efforting


PROVING


And feeling like she’s not getting anywhere.


Thoughts create feelings and feelings lead to actions.


THESE feelings aren’t helping Lynn move the needle toward what she wants - which is less chaos, better communication with her husband, more confidence, & less stress.


ALL of this is possible.


But, not until she stops letting the brutal thoughts keep her stuck.


And to do that she has to quiet down long enough to actually hear & grab those thoughts.


Because trust me, they’ve been playing on a loop so long that Lynn doesn’t hear them, it’s just her norm.


The same is true for you.


Let me help you start sorting it out.


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