If you've been around here for a bit, I'm sure you've heard me say that I'm a recovering people pleaser/perfectionist. “Recovering” means that I’ve worked damn hard to turn down the volume on those propensities. While my perfectionist hasn’t been banished, she and I have come to a roommate's agreement of sorts and get along much better these days. But, you can surely imagine how having these tendencies can cause decision making to be *ahem* challenging. “What if, what if, wha