It's Thanksgiving here in the U.S. and I don’t know about you, but few things incite my perfectionist like entertaining. Having people in my house, eating food that I served used to nearly send me off the rails. The idea of being judged?!
According to Psychology Today, there is an undercurrent, a stereotype in our society that a woman’s role is to be the peacemaker, master negotiator, placater, office mom and smoother of all ripples of conflict at work and home.
I was having some difficulty (ahem) in my nether region. Nothing major just some irritation, but I ignored it. And you know what happens when you leave something unchecked right?! I’m fine now that I took the time to investigate the problem and do something about it.
Have you ever made yourself busy because you didn’t want someone to think you were lazy? I have (raises hand sheepishly). Isn’t it funny what we will and won’t do when we feel like we are being judged?
I worked with a woman I’ll call Stacy who had her hands full with th...
My client (let’s call her Janet) has a good marriage, but she wanted her husband to be more enthusiastic about doing things with her on the weekend. She wanted him to plan activities and be excited about going with her.
As we worked through her frustration a couple of...